Format: Live-online Lecturer Led Classes (Virtual-Classroom) via Zoom
Duration: 1 Evening Every Week 6pm to 9pm
Online Live Attendance: 30 Hours
Self-Directed Learning: 30 Hours
Total CPD Credits: 60 Credits
Assessment: Written Assignment +/- Viva Voca Assessment
Award: Accredited Professional Diploma
Course Accreditation:
- Professional Development Consortium
- Irish Counselling & Psychotherapy Association (ICPA)
- Irish Counselling & Psychotherapy Association (Directory)
Class 1 – Foundations of Relationship, Couples & Family Therapy
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Orientation to State of Mind’s ethos and learning contract
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History and evolution of couple & family therapy
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Key theoretical foundations:
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Systems theory & circular causality
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Attachment theory in adult and family relationships
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Psychodynamic, CBT, EFT, Narrative influences
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Roles and boundaries of the relationship therapist
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Core ethical principles, informed consent & contracting with more than one client
Class 2 – Assessment & Formulation in Relational Work
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Engaging couples and families in the first sessions
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Individual vs couple vs family assessment – who is the “client”?
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Using genograms and relationship timelines
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Identifying patterns of interaction, strengths, and constraints
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Formulation tools for relational problems (systemic hypothesis, attachment lens)
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Goal setting and collaborative treatment planning
Class 3 – Communication, Conflict & Power Dynamics
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Functional vs dysfunctional communication patterns
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Escalation cycles and “dance” of conflict (pursuer–withdrawer, demand–defend)
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Power, control and decision-making in relationships
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De-escalation, active listening and validation skills
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Working with criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling, contempt
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Introducing structured communication exercises for couples and families
Class 4 – Working with Couples: Intimacy, Sexuality & Commitment
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Stages of couple development and relationship life cycle
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Intimacy, emotional closeness and differentiation
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Common presenting issues: infidelity, jealousy, distance, stagnation
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Integrating sexuality into couple therapy (comfort, language, boundaries)
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Supporting negotiation of needs, expectations, values and roles
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When couple work is contraindicated or needs to pause (e.g., risk issues)
Class 5 – Family Systems, Parenting & the Family Life Cycle
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Family structures (nuclear, blended, single-parent, co-parenting, chosen family)
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Family life-cycle transitions (birth, adolescence, launching, ageing, loss)
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Boundaries, roles, alliances and triangulation
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Parenting styles and their relational impact
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Working with child–parent and sibling relationships
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Including children or adolescents in sessions: when, why, and how
Class 6 – Risk, Safeguarding & Working with High-Conflict Cases
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Recognising and responding to intimate partner violence and coercive control
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Safeguarding children and vulnerable adults in relational work
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Risk assessment for self-harm, suicide and aggression
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Holding neutrality vs taking a position in unsafe situations
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Legal, ethical and organisational responsibilities
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Safety planning and referral pathways; when to shift from couple to individual work
Class 7 – Culture, Identity & Inclusive Practice
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Cultural, social and spiritual factors in relationships and families
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Gender roles, feminism and power in intimate partnerships
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Working affirmatively with LGBTQ+ couples and families
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Neurodiversity, disability and chronic illness in relational dynamics
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Intersectionality and the impact of marginalisation on attachment and trust
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Adapting language, interventions and expectations for inclusive practice
Class 8 – Trauma, Attachment Injuries & Repair
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Interpersonal trauma, complex trauma and their impact on relationships
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Intergenerational trauma and family narratives
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Attachment injuries (betrayal, abandonment, chronic misattunement)
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Stabilisation, pacing and window of tolerance in relational sessions
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Supporting couples and families in developing repair and resilience
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When to integrate or refer for individual trauma work
lass 9 – Interventions, Techniques & Integrative Practice
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Comparing key models: EFT, Gottman-informed, Structural, Strategic, Narrative, Integrative
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Selecting interventions based on formulation (not fashion)
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Live role-plays, enactments and using the room/system in the session
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Working with impasse, resistance and drop-out risk
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Case presentations and peer consultation
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Documentation and outcome measures in couples & family work
Class 10 – Endings, Review & Professional Development
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Planning and working toward endings in relational therapy
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Relapse prevention, maintenance plans and follow-up options
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Managing unfinished business and therapist’s own responses
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Self-of-the-therapist: reflexivity, countertransference, use of self
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Supervision models for relational, couples & family work
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Mapping next steps in professional development and further accreditation
Professional Diploma in Relationship, Couples & Family Therapy- (LIVE ONLINE)
60 CPD POINTS
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